whose design was it for me to feel pain? to have my heart broken? to make me weep like this? whose design? to make us mutually suffer? to put us in this place? in this time? with these feelings this life these bonds this day, this night this beauty, this ugly these men and these women these women and these men this good, this bad whose design? to make me feel love? and its loss? to make me care so much it destroys me inside? to ruin myself, my dreams, my mind, my life for someone who doesn't care? it's not of my own choosing tragedy befell me narrative written consequences met not my design but whose is it?